the word friend is thrown around a lot, i dont want to use it. lets just say people you hangout with, frequently.
I don’t know what kind of people you want to spend your time with. actually, i dont know what kind of people i want to spend my time with. i mean, i know but with sex and other stuff i am open to everything. “FOR NOW”.
lately i am lazy to judge people based on the company they keep. i dontknow about you. but i don’t hangout with some unless i want there attension, comfort, validation, to display my respect or affection or free food. thats a big range.
If you spend your time with that unentertaining, something that menial can grab your attenstion. than the bar is low, there is no challange for me to reach it or validation if i did reach. comfort is a different question.
Don’t get me wrong. i can’t call someone idoit, unentertaining or menial.
In my leisure, i am a gentelman too. someone who can see through people words and action. accept there justifications and cater to human in them. but, having a good reasons to be a dick doesn’t undick you, you are still a dick. i can accept the dickness, in expections.
Based on people compitence to react to things, life given to them. i do judge them.